I used to think Martin was a good father because he read to them, helped bathe them etc.. But a friend of mine informed he is not a good dad because a good parent never separates the children from the other parent. Our former doctor said he was "Narcissistic". I truly believe Martin's mother has this disorder and he learned this from childhood.
As my story continues to unravel you will see mistakes I made as well. I'm not perfect and not proud of the things I did but Martin isn't perfect either. I would of never done the things he and his family did to our children and myself. It's beyond comprehension that people could be this cold and calculating.
I find it rather interesting that Martin has 4 siblings. The oldest, Martin's sister was married and she helped Martin manipulate our divorce just as she did her own. Her children never see their father. She went to the extent of changing their last names to her maiden name and changing their middle names from their biological fathers name to her brothers names. I remember when she was getting her divorce she stated she wished she would of had another child so she could get more child support. The second to the oldest got married out of obligation; this is per Martins family and had two children from this women. They got a divorce and he told her he would stay with her as long as she took on all their debt and he got custody of the children. She bought into this and for a while he stayed away from her but they got back together. They never remarried so he was able to keep his credit in good standing well she had to file for bankruptcy. He was still able to buy Real Estate and do other things. The third child never married and is in his 40's. Martin is the youngest and as you can see he got a divorce as well.
Starting a new journey after infertility issues, a very bitter divorce and custody battle. I want to share my past and present experiences to help myself heal and hopefully help others.
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